What is a good type of music/bands to use during a "Bondage and Discipline" photo shoot? We are doing a photo shoot that will involve B/D and a dark atmosphere. Please help with some suggestions for music to get everyone in the mood. |
Um... There's a band named peaches you might like for that. They're named Peaches. Songs are "Downtown" and "F**k the Pain Away". Just make sure that's okay with the model, I'm not thinking you want to scare her.
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What do you guys think of bondage/discipline/S&M sex in relation to gender studies? Do you think it's wrong/creepy/perverted for a person to want to be sexually used by another (or vice versa, for a person to want to use another) or do you think that these are normal sex fantasies?
What do feminists have to say about women who like being submissive in their love life? |
I am an ardent feminist and I like men. In particular, I love my husband. I am a senior executive in charge of a £500million corporation in London. Most people think of me as a strong and focused manager who happens to be a woman. A few others think of me as a woman who, by some means or other, has managed to get the top job. I can detect these two different attitudes in the way people, often men, try to treat me.
At home, behind closed doors, when we are being intimate and outrageous; then I ask my husband to treat me as he wishes for his pleasure so long as I can get my pleasure also. I chose my husband, and said yes to his proposal, because I knew that he would be good in this particular role as my dominant. I will not tell you what we do, nor what he does with me, but there is nothing new on the Net so far as we have seen. And my pleasure is extensive and complete.
Is that what you mean? |
I would like to know if there are women in California who are into bondage and discipline.? I would like to know if there are women in California who are into bondage and discipline.?
really looking to get into the bdsm lifestyle bondage discipline
especialy dressing up like superheros |
| Lol..Yahoo would have violated me for this one. How did you slip this query by them? |
Point of Law regarding Bondage & discipline? Is charging a Fee for Bondage&Discipline (Non Sexual), regarded by the law the same as Prostitution & therefore Illegal? It's just a fantasy. |
| Charging a fee = business, requiring business license and government interference. So yes, it would be illegal in lots of places. Don't charge. There's a million people who will tie you up for free. Just look on the internet sometime. |
I would like to know if there are women in iowa who are into bondage and discipline.? really looking to get into the bdsm lifestyle bondage discipline and foot worshipping especially |
There are several sites to place this kind of personals, where you can include tastes, region:
www.bondage.com
www.collarme.com
www.alt.com
Good luck! |
Is there such a thing as "light" bondage/discipline? Is this something that can be part of "normal" sexual exploration? Along with other kinds of sexual play? I"m, not saying that theres anything inherently wrong with hardcore BDSM lifestyles, but that's not me. But I just want to explore it a little and people seem to be telling me that it's an all or nothing deal. Is this true? |
There is no such thing in BDSM as "all or nothing." Everyone can make their own limits and stick to them.
If you want to start light, try silk scarves or ties to keep your hands bound, as they are soft against the skin. Keep something sharp nearby, though, in case they tighten or become hard to untie. If anything starts to tingle or go numb, stop immediately and get loose.
Spanking is another form of play that's not only quite common, but reasonably safe, as the fleshy parts of the bottom can take quite a lot of punishment without any long term injury. I'd be more than happy to introduce you to the art if you live close enough to me, and are at least 18 years of age. ;)
Contrary to the two previous answers to mine, do NOT engage in choking or any other form of breathplay. Breathplay is a form of edgeplay, making it the hardcore side of BDSM, which you already stated is not your interest. Choking is VERY dangerous and there's no known way to minimize that risk as there is with other forms of BDSM. You should never mess with your brain's oxygen supply, no matter what "rush" you supposedly get from it. Unless you want to put your life and wellbeing in the hands of someone else, do not allow anyone to choke you, EVER! |