My first lesbian experience was bad cause i was not very attracted? to her and afterwards i felt like i had been raped. Anyway my subconscious mind has been looking for someone who can make up for the first experience but consciously i don,t want another lesbian realltionship. Unfortunately my subconscious mind makes me say suggestive things to attractive women.maybe a day or a week later i realise wot i have said eg your big (boobs), i just need some encouragement, just one time (sex)),etc etc how can i stop saying this stuff? |
| aww. im so sorry that happened. u were too anxious. if u want a better experience, wait for someone u are sexually attracted to. |
How do you pick the right woman to have your first lesbian experience with? What qualities should I look for in a woman if I am looking to have my first lesbian experience?
Should the woman by an aloof person I met online, or like the women I see holding hands at Wal-Mart, or like the women on my BF's computer? |
| if you're in love with her, hopefully no STD's |
Can you explain your first lesbian experience please? My name is Marie and I'm 15. I'm actually straight but i LOVE hearing these stories! I think they are soo cute, and if you could please say how old you were
and just explain how your first lesbian experience was liek!
Thanx |
| A lady never tells. |
What was your first lesbian experience? I'm just wondering because I'm loving what me and my girlfriend have started doing[and no its not sex]. So what did YOU do your first experience?
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| mine was a couple of years ago with my older cousin Lacey an we were in her pool an it was hot so we skinny dipped. and did more than just that! |
What was your first lesbian experience like? I kinda just had mine and I want to know how it compares to some other ones. I'm a little too embarrassed to go into too much detail on an internet site, but can you please make yours kinda detailed? In case you're wondering, I got eaten out by my friend in her car. It was great. :) |
based on your other questions, you're a guy and a girl who had sex with a guy, but now with a girl?
anyway, it was really hot. :P |
Does enyone have a first lesbian experience, or just a cute one? I just love hearing these stories, i think they are soo cute. Tell me a story and how old you were.
Thanx! |
when i was in 8th grade i went out eith this girl..
we went out for a year..
i loved her so much..
one day she made up a lie saying my brother raped her.. i told my parents.. i was scared.. they found out i was bi...
they were super disappointed in me....
it turns out that my brother didnt lay a finger on her....
she lied.. she ruined my life..
the end...
how cute right?!?!
=/ |
Were you let down by your first lesbian experience? I've convinced myself that I'm bisexual. Uneven bisexual. I'm convinced I'm much more into women than men. And I'm worried that I've got my hopes up. |
Only you can answer this question by experimentation.
Every person is different. Some may be fully satisfied and others a total let down.
Allot depends on how you feel about the man or women which is better.
But im not gonna lie, toys help allot if you are having a hard time feeling it.
You just need to figure out what feels right and is pleasurable for you. and really the only way to find that out is through experience.
Good luck |
My first lesbian experience was terrible and since then if i meet or see? an unattractive gay girl i can get quite mean but i don't want to be. I seem to be drawn to straight women and hit on them. |
You seem to be hurt and angry perhaps even bitter with yourself and the disappointment. Maybe you had reservations prior to actually going through the experience and when you actually did and it was a let down it angered you more with yourself. You are probably making advances on straight girls because of two reasons: Either you are trying to hide from another lesbian encounter by knowingly facing rejections so this way you can convince yourself that you are the problem and you are the rejected one OR it could be an act of revenge on straight girls because you now feel 'unclean' about your own sexuality. Resentment is making you be mean to lesbians and you need to find a way to put a stop to it because they too are human and they too hurt just like you.
You need to heal before further committing yourself to any type of relationship. You need to talk to someone, preferably a professional, a support group perhaps? It is very unfortunate that your first experience was so painful, I can assure you that it needed not be so. Are you entirely comfortable with your own sexuality or are you finding an inner struggle somewhow?
Remember, you cannot force an issue and you need to now realize that ALL of us have done things which we've later resented, it is part and parcel of being human. What you have to do is learn from it and be honest with yourself and go back to your control seat and learn to say "No" even to your own self sometimes...
I hope you get over it quicky and start to enjoy your inner beauty, if you were not sensitive you would not be hurting so love and kisses to you! |
What was ur first Lesbian experience like? In detail please I love listening to these type of stories. & did you enjoying it? How was your 1st time. & how long after did you do it again!? I havent had one yet but cant wait till the day. Thanks |
I've got time to kill!
Well, I'm not sure what you mean by first lesbian experience, kiss or sex? I guess I will assume both.
So, my first girlfriend wasn't even lesbian herself. Bi-curious would definitely define her sexuality at the time, but she is straight for the most part. Anyway, so we started out as best friends, but I loved her so much more than that and I had to tell her. I also thought my timing was perfect--She had just been cheated on and dumped, so I thought I'd show her that I love her more than anything.
Mm, you learn from your mistakes. Our relationship had a rocky start. Moving on, my first kiss with her was very unexpected and that's why it's so memorable. I was anxious about something and she said, "If I kissed you, would you stop worrying?". I blushed and nodded shyly. Then, she kissed me so sweetly, I could have fainted. I felt so blissful, I was definitely on cloud 9.
Sex....Our first time was also very unexpected. Funny how that works. We were just cuddling at first. Mind you, we had been dating for months and knew each other well for a good few years, so it's not like it happened so quickly.
You really want me to go into detail? Well, even if it was my first time pleasing another lady, I don't mean to brag, but I wasn't too shabby. I made her so wet--OKAY. I don't think I want to share anymore than that. ^^;;; But sex was always good. Good times. |
How was your first lesbian experience? do you have a story to tell? i like details! lol |
| I won't tell you my first experience because its sacred. But ill tell you about the time my ex and I were I her house and we were watching a movie when she said "I think you should take your pants off" XD so I did and she undressed me and vice versa. Then we started kissing and she went down on me and id never came(squirted) so I thought I had to pee so I tried to hold it in and she kept going harder and faster with her two fingers and toungue. And it got pretty intense. I was trying my hardest to hold it in and she started saying; let it out baby let it out. And I came right in her mouth. And something came over me for like 10 minutes I was shaking and my whole body felt really good. I thought I was floating. And when I finally relaxed she directedme how to do the same and in about five min she was doing the same but my face wasn't down there. Then we spent the rest of the night cuddling and caressing each other until we fell asleep. We were so in love. Then I went into the military and found new love. We still talk. |