Does sex feel good for the one wearing the strap on? So in lesbian sex, when the woman wears the strap on does she feel good too down there, or just the other person. |
| Depending on how the strap-on is made there are several ways to feel good using it. Some of them allow you to put a vibrating bullet behind the dildo which can be stimulating. Some of them are made in such a way that you can get pressure on the clitoris. And, some are double ended and allow you to insert it in yourself while using it on someone else. |
How do you have lesbian sex just wondering...10 points? How do lesbians have sex? Does one of them where a strap on? Like does the dike lesbian wear the strap on and the girly girl of the relationship doesn't.? |
"strap-on"?
"dike/girly-girl"?
Oh, you have so little imagination.... |
Having lesbian sex with a male room mate in the same room? would you have sex with your girlfriend in the same room as your male room mate was in (even if you or your girlfriend was to use a strap on) regardless if he was sleeping, watching tv, or even partly watching you 2? |
| Absolutely not.. |
How Exactly Is Lesbian Sex Supposed to Work? I had my 1st sexual encounter with a butch lesbian last weekend... so I was a little confused as to what was supposed to happen... I tried to undress her, and she said no you are the fem, so you are supposed to get undressed... then she ended up giving me oral and using a strap on... I mean, it was great, but I'm confused... was I supposed to do something to her in return? I thought we were going to go down on eachother etc. but the fact that she wouldn't even let me take her clothes off confused the hell out of me... and now I'm scared to ask her... It just doesn't seem right that she didn't really get anything out of it? Does anyone know??!!! |
She sounds like she has her own little rules and regulations she's following - there's not any official "this is how it's done." If it's important to you, you do need to ask her, "Look, I want you to feel as good as I do - what can I do for you?" You didn't do anything wrong, she just sounds quirky.
Have a pleasant day. |
How do you have sex with an FTM Transman? im just curious im a bi girl, how would i "get busy" with one? I find them attractive so im just wondering how to do it. Is it like lesbian sex or would they use a strap on?
Any FTM's answering would be good or anyone who has slept with an Ftm. |
To be honest with you, I'd never have sex with a bi girl that fetishizes us in the first place. Mostly because bi girls/ and lesbians are generally not attracted to us as being men. They're attracted to the androgynous nature of us, usually in the very early stages of transition, when we can still appear tomboyish/androgynous. Once that "image" is gone, so is their attraction. And I just don't find anything particularly attractive about shallow, superficial girls.
As far as how we have sex? Very well thank you. I don't like answering questions for "curiosity's sake" either, because you're putting a question like that on an entire population of people and trying to generalize not only all transmen, but generalizing the definition of "sex" too. People are all different and unique and everyone has their own perspectives on sex. It's not something you can say "oh, you're FTM so you must like A, B, and C" It's not that simple.
I will say this though. We don't have lesbian sex. Lesbians are two females. Transmen are not females. This is another reason I'm very hesitant to do anything sexual with bi/les girls, because if you have it in your brain that we have "lesbian sex", then you're obviously not seeing me as a male, you're seeing me as what's comfortable for you, and for you possibly maintaining an image amongst gay/lesbian social circles. And I'm just not that guy, who is willing to make himself the poster guy for your sexuality/gender open-mindedness, when in reality it's obvious you're not that open minded at all. Especially when you compare us to lesbians and lesbian sex. |
Lesbian sex advice serious question? I have been in a lesbian relationship for over three years now and have a question. We are very happy with our sex life and can have it with/without toys. I know every lesbian defines sex verse playing around in their own way. However, my gf wears the strap on, which is maybe one out every three times we have sex. So I feel like having sex is more obviously defined with a strap on is involved. I feel like what I have to offer is my hand and mouth, where she has that and then a strap on. She doesnt want any toys in her etc...so my question is..how do you think the person who wears the strap on wants to be pleasured? I feel like i have less to offer bc she just did this work with her toy and took it off and now im using my mouth and hand? idk, she hasnt complained or said anything but there has to be other lesbians who are dating girls who wear it who can help answer,or anyone really? -----This is NOT a joke or anything, im serious. Thanks. |
| You can perform oral sex on the strap-on toy and manually stimulate her vulva and vagina with your fingers. There are plenty of woman who enjoy being pleasured this way while wearing a strap-on. It sounds like you feel inadequate because you aren't able to use a strap-on on her. But perhaps she doesn't see it that way? Maybe she enjoys exactly what you have to offer. The best way to find out how your partner wants to be pleasured is by asking her. Good luck! |
Question About Lesbian Sex Im Only 13? ok so im a lesbian and i was thinking when i get older im going to want to have sex with lots of women not just one and that means one night stands so if i get a strap on and use it on one woman wouldnt that be nasty to use it on a different woman or what |
Although the logic I have is that I'll have sex with a woman who's had sex before, I do not think I'd warm up to being screwed by a toy that was used on other women before me.
If someone's not grossed out by that, and is still willing to use it, you need to take all of the safety measures to clean the toy and sanitize it. If you go here, it gives you information about lesbian sex and how to go about it safely and to properly take care and clean things.
lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesbians…
I will say though, that you're 13 and you should probably wait a few years. Your body isn't really developed enough for sex to actually feel like it should and mean what it should. And I kind of barfed in my mouth when I read your age. |
Lesbian relationship sex help? My girlfriend and I have a great relationship emotionally and sexually. We like to use a strap-on occasionally during sex, the last two we've had the harnesses have broken. Does anyone have any brands or types to recommend? |
Gee Whiz Jodie, don't be shy! I would recommend something custom made for your needs, at this
point. |
Strap on sex questions? This question is not meant to perverted in any way I just need some help. Ok so I'm a gold star lesbian.. never had sex with a guy, so strap n sex in a new concept for me. Me and my fiance are interested in it and have a vac u lock strap on and to be frank, its quite large and made to look like the real deal. But now the point is that it hurts. I'm sure this is normal for all first time penis sex, I just want to know if anyone else had this problem and how long it took them to adjust, And how long I should expect the pain/ uncomfortableness, cause I'd really love to enjoy it. |
vac-u-lock? Big spender. Sounds like you went all out at the porn shop.
Sex is not supposed to hurt, ever... unless you like pain, but that's a different story.
There is no standard you have to live up to in terms of the size of objects you insert into your vagina. You have been independent of external standards in terms of being a lesbian, so why do you feel the need to conform in this intimate aspect? Get a smaller one, a nice harness, and go ahead and spend more than 50 bucks. A decent harness is universal with other dildos.
Good Vibrations is a lesbian oriented sex shop
www.goodvibes.com/main.jhtml |