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Isn't Oregon more mature than many states, since going topless is fine with them? ASHLAND, Ore. — A woman seen frequently in Ashland riding topless on her bicycle says she plans to be in Ashland's Fourth of July parade free and independent of all clothing.
Jen Moss has been known as "The Naked Lady" since she moved to Ashland in May from Ojai, Calif., drawn by the town's nudity laws. They specify only that people must cover their genitalia in a city park or the downtown commercial district, which means Moss need not cover her breasts. | Since the beginning of time, unattractive women have ALWAYS protested attractive women going topless.
Why is that?
latimesblogs.latimes.com/photos/u… | I'm a Christian but I rededicated my faith yesterday at the Harvest Crusade at Anaheim but Im still tempted? I live in Orange County and i go to college here and it is so hard to not view girls in a sexualized way...I realize I have a problem and i'm trying to find answers to put it away so that I don't have to deal with sleepless nights anymore and I don't have to deal with problems of not looking women right in the eye.
I now realize its downright nasty and disrespectful to look at girls and women in a perverted wat and there's more to them than just **** and racks.
But I still have this strong temptation, how do I deal with it?
Do Christians deal with it regularly?
Some of my friends and mature people I know had several girlfriends and had premarital sex and still have it...how do I not use them as an excuse and break away from sexual urges. I keep telling myself "oh they had all the girlfriends and all the sex and now he turned his life around and got away scot free and oh he's married so he can have all the sex he wants with his wife"....it is soooo wrong how do I break away from that type of thinking and mentality
My friends go to the beach and hang out and stuff and they take me and it is soooo hard to not look at girls and women there with almost naked bodies running around
I have this desire for companionship and intimacy...to be loved, to be hugged, to just love a woman...is it wrong?
So as a Christian, how do I deal with it? im truly struggling
| Look - We are not meat, we are human! When guys look at me like that I feel just awful...and my hubby has to hold me back most of the times (seriously)
You have to RESPECT us! Yes, we might look pretty...but first off, think if the person your staring and ogling at is a BEAUTIFUL PERSON!!! (aka - kind to others!) Physical beauty is NOTHING!
We all come from a putrid drop, we are to be returned to the earth as dust and bones - nothing more. Beauty fades. I suggest you talk to your preacher as well. | Isn't Oregon more mature than many states, since going topless is fine with them? ASHLAND, Ore. — A woman seen frequently in Ashland riding topless on her bicycle says she plans to be in Ashland's Fourth of July parade free and independent of all clothing.
Jen Moss has been known as "The Naked Lady" since she moved to Ashland in May from Ojai, Calif., drawn by the town's nudity laws. They specify only that people must cover their genitalia in a city park or the downtown commercial district, which means Moss need not cover her breasts | | And the connection between going topless and mental maturity is???????? | Isn't Oregon more mature than many states, since going topless is fine with them? ASHLAND, Ore. — A woman seen frequently in Ashland riding topless on her bicycle says she plans to be in Ashland's Fourth of July parade free and independent of all clothing.
Jen Moss has been known as "The Naked Lady" since she moved to Ashland in May from Ojai, Calif., drawn by the town's nudity laws. They specify only that people must cover their genitalia in a city park or the downtown commercial district, which means Moss need not cover her breasts | | I "double dog dare ya" to try that in any city in Utah! I knew of a lady there that ran a topless/scantily clad housekeeping service, and the religious nuts are still trying to run her out of town! | Isn't Oregon more mature than many states, since going topless is fine with them? ASHLAND, Ore. — A woman seen frequently in Ashland riding topless on her bicycle says she plans to be in Ashland's Fourth of July parade free and independent of all clothing.
Jen Moss has been known as "The Naked Lady" since she moved to Ashland in May from Ojai, Calif., drawn by the town's nudity laws. They specify only that people must cover their genitalia in a city park or the downtown commercial district, which means Moss need not cover her breasts | | So I guess the National Geographic is your bible, and law book. | I'm a Christian but I rededicated my faith yesterday at the Harvest Crusade at Anaheim but Im still tempted? I live in Orange County and i go to college here and it is so hard to not view girls in a sexualized way...I realize I have a problem and i'm trying to find answers to put it away so that I don't have to deal with sleepless nights anymore and I don't have to deal with problems of not looking women right in the eye.
I now realize its downright nasty and disrespectful to look at girls and women in a perverted wat and there's more to them than just **** and racks.
But I still have this strong temptation, how do I deal with it?
Do Christians deal with it regularly?
Some of my friends and mature people I know had several girlfriends and had premarital sex and still have it...how do I not use them as an excuse and break away from sexual urges. I keep telling myself "oh they had all the girlfriends and all the sex and now he turned his life around and got away scot free and oh he's married so he can have all the sex he wants with his wife"....it is soooo wrong how do I break away from that type of thinking and mentality
My friends go to the beach and hang out and stuff and they take me and it is soooo hard to not look at girls and women there with almost naked bodies running around
I have this desire for companionship and intimacy...to be loved, to be hugged, to just love a woman...is it wrong?
So as a Christian, how do I deal with it? im truly struggling
| Chris, being a christian or jew or moslem or atheist really doesn't make a difference in the urges and fantasies we all get, male and female. Your faith makes you more aware of the urges, and what the right thing to do about them is. We are all tempted by anything the Adversary can throw at us. Even Jesus was tempted as a man, as all humans are tempted. The difference is now that you are more aware of it, the Adversary will now throw guilt at you, just to make you feel like you are failing in your faith. He isn't called the prince of lies for nothing you know. Recognize that, and learn to forgive YOURSELF. If you realize the action is wrong, and you therefore don't particiapte in it, ae you still guilty of thinking about it? Where did the 'bad' thought originally come from anyway? I certainly don't beleive God put it in your head. That leaves only one other, and again, recognize it and put it way from you. Your whole life is the test. You aren't judged soley on what you did right or wrong, but also what you did about it. Realize one important truth: if sin didnt look like fun, we woudlnt do it. Having the thought about it isn't the real test--did you do it, or decide not to do it? THAT is the test.
OK?
| I'm a Christian but I rededicated my faith yesterday at the Harvest Crusade at Anaheim but Im still tempted? I live in Orange County and i go to college here and it is so hard to not view girls in a sexualized way...I realize I have a problem and i'm trying to find answers to put it away so that I don't have to deal with sleepless nights anymore and I don't have to deal with problems of not looking women right in the eye.
I now realize its downright nasty and disrespectful to look at girls and women in a perverted wat and there's more to them than just **** and racks.
But I still have this strong temptation, how do I deal with it?
Do Christians deal with it regularly?
Some of my friends and mature people I know had several girlfriends and had premarital sex and still have it...how do I not use them as an excuse and break away from sexual urges. I keep telling myself "oh they had all the girlfriends and all the sex and now he turned his life around and got away scot free and oh he's married so he can have all the sex he wants with his wife"....it is soooo wrong how do I break away from that type of thinking and mentality
My friends go to the beach and hang out and stuff and they take me and it is soooo hard to not look at girls and women there with almost naked bodies running around
I have this desire for companionship and intimacy...to be loved, to be hugged, to just love a woman...is it wrong?
So as a Christian, how do I deal with it? im truly struggling
| "Do Christians deal with it regularly?"
They grow up and stop being delusional. |
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