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How can I stop masturbating? I have been indulged in masturbation since I was 10. I consider myself to be a heavy masturbater, as I do it a couple of times even now when I am in my thirties.
I think it is bothering me as it has given me awful thoughts, sexual thoughts, just to satisfy my fantasies when masturbating. I have done terrible things, like voyeur etc. just to satisfy myself when masturbating.
Can anyone tell me how I can stop this habit? | get a life, dude. if all u think about is pulling it, then u got nothing else better to do. u're a sex addict, and u're addicted to yourself
get a hobby, sports or other social activity where you'll meet other people, hopefully women, and find yourself a partner to play with, and you can dump your right hand.
we all know masturbation is normal, but your situation is getting out of hand (pun intended). get a life, dude | What is the term for this? Last night I went running with my mom and this old man came out of an alley way. His pants were done, shirt up, and he was masturbating right in front of us. I want to know what the term is for this. It is not exhibitionist or voyeur, if you look those up that is different. I am being 100% serious, I want to know the term so please don't flag my question. Thanks for any real answers. | I think the guys was just homeless and horny BUT if he wanted you to see him in was exhibitionism.
"Public masturbation is mostly done at locations where it is unlikely to be seen - otherwise it is more an element of very aggressive exhibitionism. The thought that someone might be watching and that he is exposed during masturbation, gives some males additional mental stimulation or simply sexual thrills. Typically the masturbating person selects a location where he/she might be spotted and not a location where he/she will be spotted. Those places can be: the passenger or driver seat of a car, a balcony, a window, a beach. Also in most cases the location can be seen but not be accessed easily, meaning that the masturbating lady keeps the spectators out of direct access to her body. "
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Hope it helps :) | What's it like going to confession? What's it like going to confession with a Catholic priest? I've often wondered this. Do you have to tell him every little sin you've committed? What if it's something embarassing, like you've masturbated, or maybe you're some sort of creepy voyeur who goes around stealing women's knickers from washing lines? What if your sin is something really serious and criminal, like rape, spouse-beating, murder or guy abuse? Can a priest really, humanly, keep all of that kind of information to himself without telling anyone else?
Especially keen to hear answers from Catholics and ex-Catholics. Thanks! | It is hard to really look at yourself and say, "I have sinned here and I need to be forgiven."
Reconciliation is a sacrament meant to be a healing encounter between God and the penitent, and there is no need to worry about exactly what to say or do.
This is one way how to go to Confession
• Get yourself ready by making your examination of conscience.
You enter the confessional. You can choose to talk to the priest face to face or anonymously behind a screen.
• After the priest greets you with the Sign of the Cross make the Sign of the Cross and say: “Bless me Father for I have sinned. It has been (say how long) since my last confession. These are my sins…”
• Tell your sins simply and honestly to the priest. Don’t be embarrassed.
• When you are done listing your sins please say: “…I am sorry for these sins and all the sins I can’t remember.”
• Listen to the advice the priest gives you and accept the penance from him. Then make an Act of Contrition for your sins:
My God,
I am sorry for my sins with all my heart.
In choosing to do wrong
And failing to do good,
I have sinned against you
whom I should love above all things.
I firmly intend, with your help,
to do penance,
to sin no more,
and to avoid whatever leads me to sin.
Amen.
• The priest will then conclude with the words: “Your sins are truly forgiven, Go in Peace”. You respond: “Thanks be to God.”
• Perform your penance as soon as possible.
For more information, see the Catechism of the Catholic Church, sections 1422 and following: www.nccbuscc.org/catechism/text/p…
With love in Christ. | Are the departed all perverts? Mediums tell us that our passed on relatives are always watching over us. That means they are watching us on the toilet and when we masturbate. Are they all pervy voyeurs? | | errm no, Mediums are full of sh*t | Married couples: what would you do in this situation?? There is no right or wrong answer, so just be truthful.
If you unintentionally found your partner masturbating (and they didn't know you were there), which of the following would you do. Be honest. LOL!!
a. Turn around, and quietly walk away before you were noticed (and never mention it).
b. Feel offended, and confront them about it right then and there.
c. Walk away, but ask them about it afterwards.
d. Be a voyeur, and secrectly watch them do the deed (and enjoy every minute of it LOL!!).
e. Make your presence known, and ask if you could assist them in their endeavor.
f. Make your presence known, and masturbate along with them.
g. Spy on them secretly, while masturbating yourself at the same time.
h. Something else?? (if so, explain) | | D then G then F then i would do him all day long in various places in and out of the house. it turns me on just thinking of this. thanks i needed a little pick me up! | Filming a minor in the nude? Is this allowed if the parents do it?They put hidden cameras in his bedroom,bathroom,all over the house,all over town,friends houses,places he hangs out at making an entire tv show based on him without his knowledge.They have a special camera editing software that automaticly censors his private areas,but it is seen infront of 300 million americans him masturbating,having sex,showering,using the bathroom etc.Is this allowed?The only thing I can find is video voyeur laws and I dont believe it would fall under that since the show is designed for scientific purposes and can easily be proven that was the intention in court.Is this legal? | If the show was for 300 million Americans, it would not be for scientific purposes, it would be for entertainment.
You need to see a psychiatrist with your permanent sense of paranoia thinking they have put cameras everywhere in your world, you have asked too many questions regarding it. | Do Christians lose their delusions whenever they strip, crap, or masturbate? Do they find it hard to imagine someone above them looking down whenever they are involved in "personal" routines, such as when they strip themselves naked, when they crap, or masturbate? Wouldn't it make sense if they temporarily imagine there is no God in order to ease the conflicting superstition that there is an omniscient voyeur always peering at your every move, unless they get off to that? Do Christians temporarily imagine (On top of their current imagination of God) that there is no God in these certain events? And can we consider them sane in these specific intervals of time? | | Silly, Christians don't poop or undress. Or masterbate. | Could I be a masochist? Hi - I've had a problem like this for about as long as I can remember. I have a feeling it's a fetish, but I've been wondering if I could be either a voyeur or even a masochist. Anywho, I fantasize myself doing sexual things with men. Just men. I can't find anything about women that makes me want to do anything with them sexually. However, the female orgasm sound turns me on (not that dumb porn star moan), mainly when it sounds like she could be raped. I find it horrifying, but I even masturbate to pictures of half-naked women and imagine they're being raped. Only being raped. And it is always with a man who I find somewhat ugly, or unappealing. I feel awful for doing this, because it is seeing women in a very degrading light. But it's just how I've always been. It's like, the thought of a woman being sexually invaded (as in, not wanting it to happen) somehow arouses me.
I've searched, but I can't really find anything that matches me. Any suggestions, please? Read details, please. | | actually, most people who study human sexuality find that most women have some sort of rape fantasy. (no, we do not really want to be raped, fantasy rape and the real thing are completely different). so its pretty normal. and no, that would not make you a masochist, being a masochist means you find pleasure in your own pain or submission, not somebody elses. | Husband having sex with realistic vagina? Okay? When I masturbate I fantasize about my husband having sex with me and another woman (switching back and forth) or me giving him a B.J. while he has sex with another woman and yes I am a bit of a voyeur and I enjoy watching porn. I do not wish to bring another person into our sexual relationship because I don't want there to end up being any emotional involvement or jealousy and I honestly don't believe I could could handle doing this in real life so to fulfill my fantasy I have decided to purchase a realistic vibrating vagina for Valentine's Day for him to have sex with when he has sex with me. He knows of my intentions and said he is willing to give it a try. Does this sound like a safer alternative to doing it in reality? Also, has anyone else done this? | There is absolutely nothing wrong with sexual experimentation (or full-blown research) in any intimate relationship.
First of all you did right by telling him your fantasy (and if you can come up with more, that'll get him all hot n bothered too).
Second, the fact that you're going to try something that, even though you're not really acting out on a real life fantasy, is close enough to get the juices going for both of you, that spices things up for you as a couple.
Third, see what he likes too, and find out if you can live out some of his fantasies. If he holds out just tell him, "Hey I told you one of mine, now share! ... or else!"
Kudos to you.
And finally yes its a safer alternative to inviting a 3rd person into your bedroom. If you should ever reconsider swinging with a 3rd, please remember that you two have to be very strong emotionally and trust each other totally so that you don't get involved in emotional head-games with a 3rd person.
Swinging means bringing in new playmates, not new mates. Some people are smart enough and strong enough to know the difference, and your playmate has to be on the same emotional page as you and your husband. Since that's a tough match for most couples, its best to just play out the fantasy as part of a couples' game, not a triples game.
Good luck and enjoy your fun together.
And yes ... remember half the fun is the build-up and anticipation. After all the biggest sex organ is between your ears. | My friend masturbates whenever I stay at his place. What do I do? Last week I stayed two nights at my best friend's place. It's sort of a one bedroom unit. We both sleep on the floor on separate mattresses.
The first night I noticed he started to touch himself as soon as he thought I've fallen asleep. He did it discreetly under the covers but he also turned around to do soft pelvic motions against the mattress as if he was humping it. He did it for short whiles but he ended up falling asleep, and it didn't look like he came. He second night he didn't do anything, but the next morning he did it again, when he thought I was still asleep.
I was shocked and I couldn't look away for the most of it, but I kept my eyes semi-closed and I didn't say a word to him then or later on. He wasn't loud about it or he exposed himself either, so I gather that he wanted to do it without me noticing it. I know he's used to do it freely because he lives by himself and watches a lot of porn. Those nights we were out at bars, drinking and checking girls out, so I think that may have put him a little horny.
He's a great guy, we're very close, we talk about everything and I know he loves women. I don't want to say anything about it because I'm afraid he might think I was going voyeur on him and that would freak him out. We're both in our late 20s so this isn't like a teenager thing. I had never seen him behave like that before. Why does he feel like doing it when I'm there? What do I do if I need to stay one more night at his place? | ok, he obviously is trying to keep this from you, so he would be horribly embarrased if you mentioned anything.
There are 2 things that could explain his behaviour, but I dont think it is specific to you.
1. Alot of people have conditioned themselves to need to asturbate to get to sleep (usually by accident). This arises from people usiing bed time for play time, the brain creates a connection between the feeling of maturbation and the act of falling asleep, therefore the brain tricks the person into thinking they have to masturbate before sleep/or when sleepy.
2. The thrill of getting caught is irrisitable for 90% of people. He waited untill he though you had fallen asleep but his mind got very excited at the thought of you waking up and catching him. It would have been the same situation regardless of who was staying.
Neither of these things is a refelection on you.
What you can do is keep yourself awake, untill he falls asleep. Just make alot of noise or play a game on your phone or read a book. If you dont fall asleep, he wont think he is free to play with the trouser snake. |
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